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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Thread 1

Adventurous stories from Agustinus Wibowo, a backpacker who travel around Asia, which share on www.kompas.com I posted this amazing travel into thread series. I have to translate from Indonesian to English and hope still remain the originality. Happy Reading.
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Independence Gate (Pakistan)


"Pakistan creates a distance between us, we split brotherhood. No more need to continue our war". It was a newspaper article in the Indian lower rubric opinion. Both neighboring countries has been hostiled since birth. Pakistan created out of British India in 1947 when the people of India have given the Muslim countries themselves. Pakistan means "the Pure", idealist Muslim nation was a country that stood on the purity and sanctity of Islam. However, controversy was always coloring history the two countries, which seemed to spread hate each other. Remember the case of bombs in New Delhi that necessarily made point directly India to Pakistan as scapegoat? Remember how difficult India and Pakistan people to get visas also vice versa? People used the word India Pakistan as the most abusive indignation - "Chalo Pakistan", meaning "go away from here to Pakistan. Why Pakistan is always portrayed as a place full of tanks Fire misery?. Why image in Pakistan and India is only black and gray?
India and Pakistan have a border line around 3000 kilometers, but only one official border opened. Wagah border very quiet, except in the afternoon when a decrease in the flag ceremony took place. Not many people can travel, because India visa nearly impossible for the Pakistani people, and a visa to Pakistan the same difficult for India. Unfortunately, many strangers across this border even today was very different. Right on the final day of my due India visa ended, at same time there was a historic day for the relationship the two countries. Here on gate of India I saw tens of kid dressed dancers. Dressed white vest with colors, completed with surban a fan-shaped. There were red, orange, green, yellow, blue. They were the Bhangra dancers, a traditional dance the pure land of Punjab, accompanied by sound of drum and dhol with flute.
"Today is a bus will come from Pakistan," said a TV cameraman with a happy smile, "This is a historic event as signs between India-Pakistan have better relationship." I saw the bus crawled slowly on the back gate Pakistan.
"They come! They come!" People cried. Bhangra dancers directed to leap vessel possessed. Sounded of tambourine, drum, flute were mixed. My late in the atmosphere seemed delight. Bus acrossed slowly, the white line that marked the border of two countries. Creeped across the entrance gate, India. Voice of thunderous were. Most Indian officials people with the Sikh surban they were ready to deploy with a bouquet. When officials of the Pakistani bus came , they spreaded of flower, kissed cheeks, rave, and delight Bhangra dancers.
"Bus from Lahore to Amritsar will help people re-approach between the two countries," said Hasim Khan, Pakistan Director of Tourism Development Corporation (PDTC), important officials in Pakistan this entourage. He promised to ease visa, consulate building in Amritsar so that local people need not far to New Delhi to make a visa, and hopes will make this relationship better between two countries. Doosti means Friendship, so bus service is called, will bridge the relationship with the people of Lahore Amritsar. I turned into the excitement, the sound of Bhangra danced was grateful mercy.
Although I'm not the people of India or Pakistan, after so long here, they said the language, ate the same food with them, I felt happy on way they celebrated it. How the beautiful future of South Asia if the enmity the two brothers is ended. Cross-border bus, though only a small part of the long road towards peace, it showed how they being longing to return in peace.
Border back in quiet when a Pakistani bus contains important state officials left slowly place Amritsar. Bhangra dancers were suddenly silent. Indian army border, with a hat like a paper fan, were back in silent. "NAMASTE!" I said separation in India. Ashoka lions, the national symbol of India, India was the last of the visible in my eyes. Ready to come into Pakistan.
"Baab-i-Azadi," written above the gates of the letter in Urdu. Independence Gate. This gate was built in 2001 to commemorate the hundreds of thousands of Muslims who died in the journey to reach their homeland during the holy separate Pakistan from India. Pakistan green flag flied everywhere. Pakistan crescented and stared. Pakistan army border dressed in black and wore a hat like a fan.
Compared to the border of modern India Pakistan border was more simple and full of a family atmosphere. The immigration Officials sit relaxed under a tree, chatted, and spent a bore. Who will not bored working on the border quiet as this. I invited to drink tea, yack and took photos. My passport was just only seen at a glance. Visa checked under the light that was usually used to counterfeit the money. On the wall contained a list of countries prone to be self-reported to the police Arriving in Pakistan, including Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Israel, Iraq, Bhutan, Nigeria, Yemen, Serbia, and of course not forget, India.
Immediately, I was already in the bus to Lahore, 30 kilometers from the border. Pakistan was contrast with India. Open air streets, rows of houses slums, a puff of dust everywhere, made me felt like in the deserts. This was a world which located only a few span of the land of India. Pakistan, the world forbidden.
(to be continued)

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Change Your Mood - Build Own Happiness

Sunday, bright day ... hot ... calm ... relax ... and most important ... my weekend.
As usual, i spent much time at room, lie on bed, saw above my roof top which i put glow in the dark-stars and moon stickers, wondered what i would do through day and just let my body, soul & mind relaxed and loafing on bed .
Time passed by til i saw the sun more and more high, signed the noon already came. I saw time from my cell, felt surprised cuz already 12.30 pm, then ... look ... i still didn't do any. It was not what i want for my Sunday ... what for i spent my luxury and expensive day just being like this. For note Saturday, Sunday and luckily extra holiday really luxury and expensive times for me. I sit on bed felt upset why should i spent most waiting day with lazy, loafing and useless. Oh ... i just felt my mood turn into bad .
Then, i push my body to stand, grabbed my towel, tied my hair, went to bath, got papaya bath scrub, wore nice dress, brushed my hair, and sprayed bulgari rose essential perfume. Suddenly i felt my mood turn into good as before ... It was what i want for, ready to kill time by time til my Sunday ended .
I am wondering now, with small things, my mood change easily like i turn my palm up and down. Being happy in life so simple, just enjoy the time, feel good, positive, grateful and treat yourself alike you treat your precious thing (my opinion).
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Anyway, i found more how to be happy in life then here they are :
  1. Please and please forget your past : One of the keys to happiness is a bad memory (quote of Rita Mae Brown). There’s nothing you can do about the past, so you’d better let them go and focus your energy on the present .
  2. Take responsibility in life : The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage (quote of Thucydides). You shouldn’t blame someone else when something goes wrong, take the responsibility and you have the power to choose.
  3. Build relationship : Life’s truest happiness is found in friendships we make along the way (quote of no-name). Only through relationships can we love and be loved.
  4. Develop multiple passions : The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy (quote of Charlotte-Catherine). Expand yourself to new passions. This way you will create new ways to happiness.
  5. Build character : Character is the basis of happiness and happiness the sanction of character (quote of George Santayana).When you are true to yourself and others, you will be in peace.
  6. Be who you are : The summit of happiness is reached when a person is ready to be what he/she is (quote of Desiderius Erasmus). You can only be happy if you become who you are. Don’t live other people’s life by trying to meet their expectations.Ouw ... really pity people who live for other expectations. It is useless ... please never do that.
  7. Live your life purpose : The only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a purpose (quote of William Cowper). find what the matters to you and build the courage to follow it.
  8. Count your blessings : Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have (quote of no-name). Look at what you have and soon you will have plenty of reasons to be happy. See ... grateful is right option to take right ... so ... start from now ... being grateful ... and everything is enough for you.
  9. Have positive mind : It is not the place, nor the condition, but the mind alone that can make anyone happy or miserable (quote of Roger L’Estrange). Your mind can make or break you, so guard it well. And now look this ... have positive mind is always good choice right.
  10. Work creatively : Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort (quote of Franklin D. Roosevelt). Being creative means found flow which allow you to achieve high productivity and being happy at the same time. But ... this part really hard to do specially for me, as work in accounting field. Come on ... i have learned accounting about 3 and half year in collage then work really hectic year by year with number of money but how i should find 'the flow ?'. So more easy to start liking your job will be better right.
  11. Start with what you have : The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet (quote of James Oppenheim). Happy people don’t need certain job or certain level of income. Instead, they learn to be happy with what they already have. Wow ... it is too great ... i wish my friends can read this, specially for them who always less with their salary ... come on guys ... you have good place to work and why you always feel sorry with your income ... so pity.
  12. Change : They must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom (quote of Confucius). Being happy requires you to constantly grow in this way will change you into good and better and me ... i always avoid being best cuz ... i don't like much things.
  13. Use your talents : True happiness involves the full use of one’s power and talents (quote of Douglas Pagels). Using your talents fully will make you even happier because of the satisfaction of doing your best. I very interest in art, cooking and writing. More and more i know, those are my talents. I feel grateful cuz God gives me those talents, so when i need happy time that talents really help me a lot.
  14. Beware of small things : The happiness of most people we know is not ruined by great catastrophes or fatal errors, but by the repetition of slowly destructive little things. (quote of Ernest Dimnet). Small leaks can sink your ship of happiness, so beware of them.
  15. Distill your ambitions : Where ambition ends happiness begins (quote of no-name). While wanting to achieve more in your life is good, being obsessed by it is not.
  16. Make others happy : Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself (quote of Ralph Waldo Emerson). The more you help other people and make them happy, the more you will be happy.
  17. Practice compassion : If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion (quote of The Dalai Lama). it requires practice. Start with thinking about the people around you. Look at their needs and find ways to meet them. Even if you don’t do it out of compassion in the beginning, your compassion will grow over time.

Well, you can read and find many ways even steps to make yourself happy, but everything will work depends yourself. No one on this world not want being happy, everyone wants it. I have my own ways to make myself happy and i am sure you must have your own ways being happy. Happiness can't count and no limit, find your happiness and share to the world .

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